Archive: May 2026

Does the situation about them involve me or not?

Published by Sophie Blitman on May 4, 2026

Deck: 1909 Waite Smith (By A.E. Waite & P. Colman Smith)

Card Notes

What is their current emotional focus actually centered on? (This will answer their primary target of attention)

Five of Swords

What is their current emotional focus actually centered on? (This will answer their primary target of attention)

Four of Wands

Is this emotional state primarily caused by the relationship with me? (direct yes / no)

Three of Wands

Is this emotional state primarily caused by the relationship with me? (direct yes / no)

Queen of Swords

Is this distance an intentional tactic or an accidental symptom of being busy? (are they deliberately pulling back to regain control or is the distance just a byproduct of external stress

Queen of Wands

Is this distance an intentional tactic or an accidental symptom of being busy? (are they deliberately pulling back to regain control or is the distance just a byproduct of external stress

Six of Swords

Are they actively suppressing or managing feelings about me? (determines if the "fake it till they make it" claim is real)

Page of Wands

Are they actively suppressing or managing feelings about me? (determines if the "fake it till they make it" claim is real)

2 – The High Priestess

How strongly am I occupying their thoughts right now? (separate from general emotional state / direct mental preoccupation check)

Queen of Pentacles

How strongly am I occupying their thoughts right now? (separate from general emotional state / direct mental preoccupation check)

Three of Swords

Reading Stats

In your reading you have got:

1 Majors
9 Minors
1 Reversals

4 Wands
1 Pentacles
0 Cups
4 Swords

1 Two
2 Threes
1 Four
1 Five
1 Six
1 Page
3 Queens

Summary:

For context, this is a situationship dynamic, and everything has been going well.

Spread: Free-form spread

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What is really going on between us?

Published by Sophie Blitman on May 3, 2026

Deck: 1909 Waite Smith (By A.E. Waite & P. Colman Smith)

Card Notes

Do they actually want to commit to me?

Ten of Swords: (Commitment vs comfort/attachment dynamic)

How much space do I take up in their mind when I’m not around?

Two of Wands: (Mental pull / frequency of thought)

Do they fantasize about me in a romantic or sexual way when we’re apart?

10 – Wheel of Fortune

What do they refuse to tell me or keep deliberately unclear?

Four of Cups: (Secrets / withholding / ambiguity)

Am I one of the most emotionally significant connections in their life right now?

13 – Death: (Emotional importance / ranking)

What are they not admitting to themselves about me?

0 – The Fool: (Internal denial / suppressed truth)

Should I expect the unexpected soon?

King of Cups: (Sudden shifts / timing / change in dynamic)

If I stopped reaching out, what would realistically happen next?

8 – Strength

Reading Stats

In your reading you have got:

4 Majors
4 Minors
2 Reversals

1 Wands
0 Pentacles
2 Cups
1 Swords

1 Two
1 Four
1 Eight
2 Tens
1 King

Summary:

For context this is a situationship dynamic and everything has been going really good lately

Spread: Free-form spread

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What is their current stance toward me?

Published by Sophie Blitman on May 3, 2026

Deck: 1909 Waite Smith (By A.E. Waite & P. Colman Smith)

Card Notes

How they see you

Three of Swords

How they feel about you (emotionally)

11 – Justice

What they want from you / the connection

Six of Cups

Their current mindset about the situation

Queen of Wands

Their next action toward you

8 – Strength

The direction this connection is moving

7 – The Chariot

Reading Stats

In your reading you have got:

3 Majors
3 Minors
1 Reversals

1 Wands
0 Pentacles
1 Cups
1 Swords

1 Three
1 Six
1 Seven
1 Eight
1 Queen

Summary:

For context this is a situationship dynamic and everything has been really good lately.

Spread: Free-form spread

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Sophie Blitman

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