The Summum Bonum
Before laying the cards out, set the intention to honour the soul contract for the Highest Good. This does not mean staying in a toxic relationship; it means doing the healing work so that you both are free to move on. You can say a prayer and maybe light a candle for this healing intention if it feels right. Ask to be shown what you need to see to accomplish the end of suffering and complete liberation for both of you.
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The nature of your karmic soul contract
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Your main lesson
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What you are already aware of (a pattern that you are in with this soul mate)
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Shadow-work still needed (especially if there are lingering triggers around the relationship)
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Past healing already accomplished (give yourself credit where credit is due as this will boost morale and help you complete the process)
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The final step on the healing journey that signals that you are ready to cut cords