what was I supposed to learn from loving or losing CC

You were meant to learn that even real love, even shared effort, is not always enough to make something last — especially if someone isn’t emotionally equipped to grow alongside you long-term.


🗡 Page of Swords
You were meant to learn how to hold curiosity in the face of heartbreak, not jump to self-blame or bitterness. This card is about keeping your mind open — not as a way to analyze him to death, but to ask:

“What part of me grew through this?”

“What did loving him teach me about who I’m becoming?”

💬 You’re not being asked to doubt the past. You’re being asked to integrate the truth of the ending.


🛠 3 of Pentacles Reversed
This doesn’t necessarily mean the whole relationship was unbalanced. It may reflect what happened toward the end: when he pulled away, he stopped co-creating the relationship. He stopped building with you. That’s the fracture.

💬 The lesson here may be: Even if love was mutual, someone can still choose not to continue bui...
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